Real answers to the questions high-achieving women ask before they trust someone with the parts they don't show anyone else.
You're a fit if you've built a life most people admire — and privately feel like something essential is missing from it. Not because anything is wrong with you. But because the identity that made you successful has quietly outgrown itself, and you can feel the friction.
You're done with surface-level solutions. You're not here for another framework or strategy. You want to realign — at the level of identity, energy, and truth — so that your life actually matches who you've become.
If you're unsure whether you're a fit: apply anyway. The alignment call will make it clear for both of us.
Especially for you. External success without internal alignment eventually feels hollow — and the women Loes works with know this firsthand. You haven't failed. You've succeeded — and arrived somewhere that needs to change.
This work bridges the gap between your achievements and your soul. You stop performing a version of yourself that no longer fits, and start leading from who you actually are.
No. You need a life you're ready to align. Whether you're a CEO, a senior leader, a founder, a creative, or someone redefining your next chapter entirely — this work is about coming home to yourself and leading from there.
Business is one of the areas we often work on. But it's never the only one — and for many women, it's not even the starting point.
It includes coaching — but goes far beyond it. The Luxe Alignment Method™ is a private identity and energetic partnership that draws on psychology, somatic practice, energy work, and strategic leadership simultaneously.
Coaching focuses on goals and actions. This work focuses on the identity and energetic architecture beneath your goals — because that's where real, lasting change actually lives.
Therapy typically looks backward — processing past experiences and healing wounds. This work looks forward and inward simultaneously: at the identity you're becoming, the patterns currently running your life, and how to recalibrate your entire operating system for where you're going.
Loes is an academic psychologist, which means the psychological depth is real and grounded. But this is not therapy. It's forward-facing, strategic, and built for women who are already at a high level and want to go further — from the inside.
Most programs operate in one lane — strategy, mindset, or spirituality. This works at the intersection of all of them: psychology, somatics, energy mastery, and leadership strategy, in one container, with one person.
It's entirely private. Nothing is templated. No modules to move through on someone else's schedule. Every session, every process, every integration is built around you — your patterns, your truth, your next evolution.
And the person leading it holds NLP & life coaching certifications, is a practitioner of ACT & mindfulness (with a published scientific article on the subject), trained in hypnosis, timeline therapy, EFT and parts work, certified in advanced energy modalities, and perceives what lives beneath the surface — working with it directly. That combination doesn't exist anywhere else.
No. This is a fully private, 1:1 experience — from the first conversation to the last session. There are no group calls, no shared spaces, no peer cohorts.
That privacy is intentional. The depth of work we do requires a container where you can be completely unguarded. The women who come to Loes are often the ones who hold everything together for everyone else. This is the one space where they don't have to.
The results span every area of your life — because that's where the misalignment lives. Specifically: radical self-trust, nervous system peace, decisions rooted in truth rather than fear, and a leadership presence that no longer costs you everything.
You stop people-pleasing, overcommitting, and outsourcing your power to approval or performance. You start leading your life with clarity, precision, and embodied certainty.
Professionally: clearer decisions, faster momentum, less energy wasted on misaligned actions. Personally: relationships that match your evolution, boundaries you hold with ease, and a genuine sense of fulfilment — not just achievement.
Results vary by individual. What's consistent: women who complete this work describe it as the most significant internal shift of their lives.
The opposite. If you've done significant personal development, you're not here for more tools — you're here for deeper integration. You have the information. What this work provides is the elimination of everything that's not you, so the truth you already carry can finally operate without interference.
The women who go deepest in this work are often the ones who've already done the most preparation. Your existing self-awareness is an asset here, not a baseline to work through.
Every format begins with The Initiation Session — a four-hour deep dive where your old identity is mapped, your new identity activated, and your full alignment roadmap created for what follows.
The Intensive format includes bi-weekly private sessions and The Initiation Session. For women with a clear focus and a defined window.
The Deep Partnership includes bi-weekly private sessions and The Initiation Session. For women ready for full-life recalibration across every dimension.
The Full Partnership includes everything in the deep partnership, plus quarterly private retreats, Voxer access — the complete, all-in experience.
Everything is entirely private and tailored to you. No modules. No templates. The process builds around what you bring to each session.
Three formats are available: the 4-month Intensive, the 12-month Deep Partnership, and the 12-month Full Partnership. The right one is confirmed together on your alignment call — based on where you are, what you're working toward, and what genuinely fits.
Loes will never suggest a format that doesn't actually match your situation. If the timing or structure isn't right, she'll tell you.
The right duration for you will become clear in the alignment conversation. Loes will never recommend a length that doesn't genuinely fit your situation.
Loes keeps her practice to a maximum of 8 clients at any given time. This is a deliberate choice — not a marketing tactic. The depth of presence this work requires cannot be sustained across a large client base. When you're in this work, you have Loes' full capacity. Not a fraction of it.
Absolutely. This is a fully discreet, private space. Nothing shared within the container leaves it. Many of the women Loes works with are public-facing, hold senior leadership roles, or carry significant responsibility in their personal lives. That discretion is not just a preference — it's a foundation.
Time isn't the issue — misalignment is. When you're operating from a misaligned identity, everything costs more energy than it should. Sessions, paradoxically, tend to create time — by eliminating the friction, second-guessing, and misaligned action that currently occupies so much of your bandwidth.
That said: this work requires genuine commitment. If you are at capacity in a way that makes even 90 minutes every two weeks impossible right now, we may agree to start when your window opens. Timing matters.
Full investment details are shared after your application and alignment call — once the format and structure that genuinely fits you has been confirmed.
This is a premium, private, high-touch experience. The investment reflects the depth, the exclusivity, and the permanent nature of what shifts. It is intended for women who understand that their clarity, their peace, and their alignment are worth more than the cost of the work.
If the investment gives you pause, bring that to the alignment call. It can be discussed honestly. Loes will never pressure — and won't work with women for whom this creates genuine financial strain.
Because the investment is tailored to the structure you choose — and the structure is tailored to you. A 4-month intensive and a 12-month full partnership are different investments. Those details are confirmed once we've established what actually fits.
This is also a relationship before it's a transaction. The alignment call is where you and Loes determine, together, whether this is the right fit — before any financial conversation happens.
Uncertainty about readiness is different from not being ready. If you're here, reading this carefully, feeling something stir — that is information. Loes doesn't work with women who are half-in, but she also doesn't mistake thoughtfulness for hesitation.
The alignment call exists precisely for this. Come with your uncertainty. That's what it's for.
After your application, you'll receive a private intake to share more about where you are and what's ready to shift. This is followed by a private 30-minute alignment call with Loes directly — a real conversation, not a pitch.
If there's genuine alignment on both sides, the partnership begins. If not, you'll leave with clarity — and that in itself is worth something.
You can't know that before it begins. What you can know: Loes doesn't accept women she isn't genuinely equipped to serve. If the alignment call reveals that this isn't the right fit, she'll tell you — directly and honestly. She has.
What the women who've completed this work share consistently: they didn't just gain insight — they became accurate. The shift is quieter than a breakthrough and more permanent than inspiration. That's what this is for.
A private 15-minute questionnaire, followed by a 30-minute alignment call with Loes. No commitment required at this stage — just honesty about where you are.
The worst outcome: you leave the call clearer than you arrived.
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