Meet Your Guide

Loes Raes.
The Woman Women Go To
When Their Identity No Longer Fits.

A decade of guiding high-achieving women back to themselves — through the intersection of psychology, soul, feminine power, and the kind of perception most people don't have a word for.

Academic psychologist Built a psychology practice for women NLP & Life Coach Certified Energy Practitioner Founder & Organizational Leader
Loes Raes

Most people see your competence.
Loes sees what's underneath it.

You present as clear, capable, and composed. You've learned to carry things without showing the weight. You make it look seamless — because you've been doing it for so long, it almost feels natural.

But beneath the performance is an identity that's been quietly outgrowing itself. A gap between who you are and who you're showing up as. A version of you asking to evolve — that hasn't had the space to.

Loes sees it before you say it. She works in that space — between who you've been and who you're becoming.

"You don't come to me because you're lost. You come because you're becoming — and you want to do it intentionally, powerfully, and correctly."

— Loes Raes

  • The emotional load you carry without anyone acknowledging it
  • The identity that's too tight — and the one that's already pressing against it
  • The boundaries you've outgrown but haven't named yet
  • The strength you perform automatically, even when you're running on empty
  • The version of you you've been suppressing to stay manageable
  • The misalignment between who you are and who the world expects you to be
  • The truth you feel clearly — but can't find words for
  • The tension your nervous system is absorbing every single day

Not Coaching.
Refinement.

Loes works at the intersection of psychology, intuition, energy work, and soul — simultaneously. Not in sequence. Not in separate boxes. All at once, in one conversation.

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Not purely psychological

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Not purely somatic

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Not purely strategic

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Not purely spiritual

The intersection of all of them. With precision.

In a session, she tracks

What You Signal Without Words

The micro-contractions in your system. The patterns beneath what you're saying. The identity you've outgrown. The one you're already stepping into — even if you can't see it yet. The emotional weight you've normalized. The places where your truth is being muted.

What she doesn't do

She Doesn't Unravel You

She realigns you. She doesn't create breakthroughs — she makes things obvious. You don't leave feeling different. You leave feeling accurate. Quiet inside. Clear-minded. Anchored in who you actually are.

"The women I work with don't experience forced breakthroughs or moments of collapse. They simply become who they actually are. The shift is quieter than that — and far more permanent."

The Performing

For as long as she can remember, Loes felt things others didn't. She sensed what was beneath conversations before anyone else named them. She read rooms, energy, people — with a precision she couldn't explain and a world that had no language for.

So she made herself fit. She learned early that feeling this deeply wasn't welcome — too sensitive, too much, too intense. She became what the world could accept: structured, high-performing, capable. She built the career, the status, the salary, the life. She managed a team of 14. She kept everything running. And for a long time, it worked.

The Breaking Point

It came on an ordinary day. Another 60+ hour week behind her. Sitting in her car — exhausted, successful, hollow — she felt something break open. Not dramatically. Quietly. A truth she could no longer manage away.

She had it all. The job. The status. The car. The marriage. The life everyone admired. And she felt like she was dying inside.

"I made an ultimatum to the universe: show me before 4pm today that there is more — and I will leave all of this and follow. I will go all in on something I can't yet name. If not, I will never believe again."

She was smacking her steering wheel in her convertible. Furious. Desperate. Ready.

The Vision

The answer came instantly.

She saw herself walking into a library she had never visited — always too busy working. She saw the inside clearly: the layout, a specific row, a specific book. The image was sharp, detailed, undeniable. She drove there.

"The library looked exactly as I had seen it. I walked to the row. I found the book. And before I read a single word, I was covered in goosebumps from head to toe."

That was the confirmation of something she had always been but never been fully allowed to inhabit: a woman who sees, who feels, who knows — at a level beyond what the ordinary world had made space for.

The Free Fall

She did what she had promised. She left the life. But leaving wasn't graceful — it was a free fall. From decades of structure, performance, and masculine drive, straight into the depths of the feminine, the mystical, the unknown. Disorienting in ways she hadn't anticipated. Humbling in ways that were necessary.

It took years to find the balance. Between the inner masculine and the inner feminine. Between structure and surrender. Between knowing and trusting. That integration — earned slowly, honestly — became the foundation of everything she now guides other women through.

The Universe Answers

And then she asked the universe for something specific.

I want to help shift women. Deeply. Quickly. Truly. Show me the tools.

She named them: hypnosis, EFT, timeline therapy, parts work, NLP. Every modality that could create real transformation — not slowly, not theoretically, but in the body, in the field, in the moment.

Within weeks, through a chain of connections she couldn't have orchestrated, she was introduced to a stranger. They sat down together. It felt like an interview and not. Something felt undeniably right. And at the end of that conversation — having known this man for less than an afternoon — he offered her his complete certification programme. NLP, life coaching, hypnosis, timeline therapy, EFT, parts work. An intensive year-long education worth thousands.

As a gift. For free. No explanation needed.

"That was my second confirmation. The universe had answered before I'd finished asking. I was exactly where I was supposed to be."

The Method

She didn't go looking for a method.

She went looking for herself.

And in that search — through the depths of energy work, through years of sitting with women in their most unravelled moments, through the slow and honest work of integrating everything she had been trained to separate — something emerged that she hadn't planned and couldn't have designed.

A way of working that lives at the exact intersection of the clinical and the mystical. That holds a woman's psychology and her soul in the same breath. That moves between the nervous system and the energy field, between the subconscious pattern and the spiritual truth, without ever choosing one over the other.

Not from a notebook. Not from a course. From living it. From guiding hundreds of women through it. From becoming, herself, the bridge she had once desperately needed.

"I couldn't find the person who could hold all of me — the analytical and the intuitive, the strategic and the sacred, the woman who had built everything and the woman who needed to burn it down and start from truth. So I became her."

"If you recognised yourself in that story — even a part of it — you already know this is for you."

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Built from Real Training.
Forged in Real Work.

This isn't intuition alone. It's a rare combination of academic psychological training, lived leadership experience, and deep somatic and energetic mastery — operating together in every session.

Academic Foundation

Academic Psychologist

Formally trained as a psychologist, giving her the depth to read identity structures, decode subconscious patterns, and understand nervous system responses — not as metaphors, but as real, trackable systems.

This is the foundation beneath everything. It is why the work creates permanent shifts, not just temporary inspiration.

Energy & Somatic Practice

She Works at the Layer
Below What Words Can Reach

Certified in Matrix Energetics and THOF — two of the most profound energy modalities available — she works directly at the level of the field, where the deepest shifts happen fastest. Combined with somatic practice, she reads what the body holds and transforms it at the root.

She is clairsentient, clairvoyant, and a channel. She feels what moves in your field before you name it. She sees what's ahead before you can. She receives. These are not additions to her practice — they are the reason it works the way it does.

Coaching Certifications

NLP & Life Coach Certified · ACT & Mindfulness Practitioner

Certified in Neuro-Linguistic Programming and life coaching — trained in hypnosis, timeline therapy, EFT, and parts work. A deep practitioner of Acceptance & Commitment Therapy and mindfulness, with a published scientific article on the subject. A rare combination of precision tools for subconscious patterns, identity shifts, and lasting change.

Real-World Experience

Founder & Organizational Leader

She founded and led her own practice for women — carrying the full weight of leadership, client care, and operational responsibility. Before that, she managed teams and ran organisations at senior level. She knows this world from the inside.

This is why the women she works with trust her with the parts they don't show anyone else.

Ψ Psychology Identity, patterns, nervous system
Energy & Perception Advanced modalities, deep field work
Coaching Direction, clarity, action
Leadership Founded practice, led organisations

The Women
She Works With.

The Founder

C.M. · Entrepreneur · Netherlands
Arrived
Outwardly successful, inwardly misaligned. Leading from pressure, not identity.
Left
Leading from who she actually is. Business clearer. Inner world alive and her own.
"Loes is an embodied invitation for every woman to find her own inner goddess. With her guidance and mirroring I came to my own realisations — ones I would never have had without her."

The Executive Leader

E. · Senior Leader · Netherlands
Arrived
Disconnected from herself, others, her surroundings. Stressed. Merely surviving day to day.
Left
Reconnected. Grounded. Truly herself again. No longer available to carry what isn't hers.
"She sees you. She sees the truth beneath everything you present — and lovingly invites you toward it. I had been surviving. Loes taught me to stop and listen. My process was painful. And it led me all the way home."

The Woman Who Came Back to Life

S. · Entrepreneur · Netherlands
Arrived
Burned out. Still delivering, still showing up — but hollow inside.
Left
Fully alive. Trusting her intuition completely. Life transformed.
"From burnout back to fully myself. I learned to trust my intuition completely. The depth of our sessions was magical. My life is transformed."

The Woman Who Found Her Ground

D. · Netherlands
Arrived
Low self-trust. Abandonment fears. Stuck — but couldn't stop the train.
Left
Standing powerfully in her life. Clear, confident, genuinely herself.
"She gave me a safe place to truly be myself — and genuinely listened. From that place, I learned to listen to myself. My sessions with Loes were life-changing."

If You Recognised
Yourself Here —

"You don't need more time. You don't need more clarity. You simply need the right space and the right partner for who you're becoming."

If something in you softened while reading this. If you felt recognised rather than inspired. If you've been waiting for a space that could hold the full complexity of who you are.

That's your signal.